As Kyle was helping the children with lunch today, he said, "You know, you girls get prettier every day." Then Paul piped up and said, "And the boys, too!"
Paul never wants to be left out!
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Thursday, December 10, 2009
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
What kind of mother dresses her child like this, anyway?
Apparently, I am now that mother.
In the past I have let my children wear strange things at home, but I made them dress in clean, matching clothes when we left the house. This combination of competing stripes hurts my eyes, but today, Erica wore this all day, everywhere we went.
That just goes to show how difficult she is to dress. Once we actually get clothes on Erica, I don't really care anymore what she looks like. She's not yet 2, but she has definite opinions, which of course are unexplainable and vary from day to day. I let her pick her clothes, but when I go to put them on her, she has already changed her mind. Sometimes she will get something half way on, and then change her mind. If I force her into something she has decided against, it means a major tantrum. And once she settles down, she still removes the clothes, and we start all over again.
So I've decided that most of the time, it's enough that she is wearing clothes, regardless of how they look.
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Sunday, October 18, 2009
Friday, October 9, 2009
The Adventures of Paul
Paul is quite adventurous and daring, and he believes he can do almost anything his older siblings can do. He often performs daring maneuvers, such as jumping off high objects, and he lands in such a way that he almost does a somersault from the force of the impact. But then he jumps up and says, "I OK!" and then runs off to play some more. You need this background to understand my reactions in the following story.
Yesterday after Josh's soccer practice, I let the kids play at the playground for 10 or 15 minutes before coming home. I pushed Erica in the swing while the others played. At one point Paul was crying, and I went over to check him out. He is usually fine unless he is bleeding. I brushed off the wood chips, showing him that there was no blood, and he was fine. I asked him what had happened, and he showed me what he had jumped off of. It was a platform that was as high as the tips of his fingers when he stretched as high as he could reach. Then he went off to play until I said it was time to go. The children didn't want to leave, and there was some whining, but I started walking for the car because it was time to go. Paul whined the most, and then he complained that he couldn't walk because his foot hurt. I had no compassion and made him walk. In fact at one point Megan was going to give him a piggy back ride, but I said no because he shouldn't get things for crying.
On the way home, Paul continued to whine and cry and complain about his foot. I was thinking that he must be ready for bed. At one point I asked Brittany to take off his sandal and look at his foot for him. She was nice and helped him settle down some. After we got home, he continued to complain about his foot and say that he couldn't walk. So Kyle and I checked him out, but we didn't really see anything, no bruising or swelling. We carried him around until bed time and hoped he'd forget it by the morning. I was beginning to have visions of my 3 year old with a cast on his foot for weeks.
In the morning, Paul said his foot still hurt, and he still wanted to be carried. I decided we'd better get it checked out. We went to the doctor this morning, who decided that it was just sprained (especially since there wasn't swelling). I am glad to avoid fractures and casts. He now just limps around. Paul has been temporarily slowed down, but it remains to be seen whether he learns a lesson.
Yesterday after Josh's soccer practice, I let the kids play at the playground for 10 or 15 minutes before coming home. I pushed Erica in the swing while the others played. At one point Paul was crying, and I went over to check him out. He is usually fine unless he is bleeding. I brushed off the wood chips, showing him that there was no blood, and he was fine. I asked him what had happened, and he showed me what he had jumped off of. It was a platform that was as high as the tips of his fingers when he stretched as high as he could reach. Then he went off to play until I said it was time to go. The children didn't want to leave, and there was some whining, but I started walking for the car because it was time to go. Paul whined the most, and then he complained that he couldn't walk because his foot hurt. I had no compassion and made him walk. In fact at one point Megan was going to give him a piggy back ride, but I said no because he shouldn't get things for crying.
On the way home, Paul continued to whine and cry and complain about his foot. I was thinking that he must be ready for bed. At one point I asked Brittany to take off his sandal and look at his foot for him. She was nice and helped him settle down some. After we got home, he continued to complain about his foot and say that he couldn't walk. So Kyle and I checked him out, but we didn't really see anything, no bruising or swelling. We carried him around until bed time and hoped he'd forget it by the morning. I was beginning to have visions of my 3 year old with a cast on his foot for weeks.
In the morning, Paul said his foot still hurt, and he still wanted to be carried. I decided we'd better get it checked out. We went to the doctor this morning, who decided that it was just sprained (especially since there wasn't swelling). I am glad to avoid fractures and casts. He now just limps around. Paul has been temporarily slowed down, but it remains to be seen whether he learns a lesson.
Sunday, September 27, 2009
HOPE
I was assigned the thought for the ward leadership meeting this moring and I was struggling with what to share. Last night, I thought I'd scan LDS.org to see if there were any topics which could provide an idea. I came across a new page: http://www.lds.org/topic/hope/
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
The New School Year
From Collages |
We have now started the second week of school. Megan is confident now that she is in second grade with the same teacher Brittany had for second grade. Megan has just slid right into the new school year without seeming to need any adjustments. Although there have been some worries about friends and lockers, Brittany is enjoying Intermediate school. The mysterious lockers have been conquered, new friends are being made, and old friends are seen after school. Brittany seems to relish the independence of walking to and from school by herself while I drive Josh and Megan to and from the elementary school. Joshua loves being in school. He is making friends and tells me the work is all easy.
Paul, Erica, and I are having trouble remembering what to do with ourselves without everyone here. Paul and Erica play together for awhile, then they argue a little, then they play, then they think it must be time to pick up the others, but it's only lunch time. Erica has started resisting naps, even refusing on some days. I think 20 months is too young for that! I know I kept busy before, but I can't quite remember how. I think I need to find a project to work on (maybe Christmas preparations?). I am doing a rotating mother's preschool/playdate every Thursday morning for Paul; that will be good for both of us. Yesterday I put Paul and Erica in the bike trailer and went for a 30 minute ride; then we did it again for a Family Night activity. Today I'm sore. Hopefully soon I'll find a good routine because school is here to stay (at least until June).
Saturday, August 29, 2009
Luke 15:3-7
This has been on my mind this afternoon:
3 And [Jesus] spake this parable unto them, saying,
4 What man of you, having an hundred sheep, if he lose one of them, doth not leave the ninety and nine in the wilderness, and go after that which is lost, until he find it?
5 And when he hath found it, he layeth it on his shoulders, rejoicing.
6 And when he cometh home, he calleth together his friends and neighbours, saying unto them, Rejoice with me; for I have found my sheep which was lost.
7 I say unto you, that likewise joy shall be in heaven over one sinner that repenteth, more than over ninety and nine just persons, which need no repentance.
--Kyle
3 And [Jesus] spake this parable unto them, saying,
4 What man of you, having an hundred sheep, if he lose one of them, doth not leave the ninety and nine in the wilderness, and go after that which is lost, until he find it?
5 And when he hath found it, he layeth it on his shoulders, rejoicing.
6 And when he cometh home, he calleth together his friends and neighbours, saying unto them, Rejoice with me; for I have found my sheep which was lost.
7 I say unto you, that likewise joy shall be in heaven over one sinner that repenteth, more than over ninety and nine just persons, which need no repentance.
--Kyle
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Sunday, August 16, 2009
Paul and Erica
Paul and Erica are playing together more and more. I enjoy watching them together. Sometimes they get in trouble together. A few days ago I was outside in the backyard for a few minutes. When I came back in, Paul and Erica were both in the kitchen. After listening to their explanations, I put together the story: Paul had climbed up onto the counter to get some crackers. He successfully got a package of crackers out of the cupboard above the stove, but he fell while getting down, hitting his head into Erica's. Every time they do something like that, I worry about them.
But there are also moments like the one I just witnessed that encourage me. They have been pushing around the toy shopping cart and stroller. Erica told Paul that she was hurt and pointed to her head. Paul said "I need to kiss it," and he did. Erica was satisfied and the two of them continued playing.
I am glad they are enjoying each other and building a good friendship.
But there are also moments like the one I just witnessed that encourage me. They have been pushing around the toy shopping cart and stroller. Erica told Paul that she was hurt and pointed to her head. Paul said "I need to kiss it," and he did. Erica was satisfied and the two of them continued playing.
I am glad they are enjoying each other and building a good friendship.
Sunday, August 2, 2009
August ?!
It's already August?! July flew by, and now we are preparing for school. Brittany has an orientation for intermediate school on Wednesday. We continue to pick up school supplies as they go on sale, and shopping for school clothes, shoes, and backpacks is done. I hope there will still be plenty of time for relaxation and fun before school starts. I will miss the full house as they go back to school.
There will be several milestones this year, as Josh starts Kindergarten and Brittany starts Intermediate school. I will have just Paul and Erica home. (Funny perspective - "just" 2 children home from school.) Speaking of milestones, Paul decided on Friday that he was ready to use the potty, and I went along with it. He is not doing great, but OK. I hope he gets it down faster than Josh did, but I don't have much control over that.
Before school starts, we will celebrate both Brittany's and Paul's birthdays, and Brittany will spend a week with Grandma - just her. She is very excited.
I have been working on reading the Book of Mormon. In July, the Young Women started a challenge to read the whole book by September 2nd. It was supposed to be 9 pages a day, but I started a week late and missed a few days. I now need to read 14 or 15 pages a day. So I have really been trying to read every day, and I have been reading for a longer time. Sometimes I have felt that I am just reading but not focusing very well or learning very much, but I have kept doing it. I have been more consistent than I have been for a long time, and I have seen a difference. The Book of Mormon is powerful. I have not struggled nearly so much with my temper. I have been better at staying calm and not yelling. All I have done differently is read The Book of Mormon, and it has made a huge difference. I think is because the Holy Ghost is better able to speak to me. I am grateful for The Book of Mormon.
There will be several milestones this year, as Josh starts Kindergarten and Brittany starts Intermediate school. I will have just Paul and Erica home. (Funny perspective - "just" 2 children home from school.) Speaking of milestones, Paul decided on Friday that he was ready to use the potty, and I went along with it. He is not doing great, but OK. I hope he gets it down faster than Josh did, but I don't have much control over that.
Before school starts, we will celebrate both Brittany's and Paul's birthdays, and Brittany will spend a week with Grandma - just her. She is very excited.
I have been working on reading the Book of Mormon. In July, the Young Women started a challenge to read the whole book by September 2nd. It was supposed to be 9 pages a day, but I started a week late and missed a few days. I now need to read 14 or 15 pages a day. So I have really been trying to read every day, and I have been reading for a longer time. Sometimes I have felt that I am just reading but not focusing very well or learning very much, but I have kept doing it. I have been more consistent than I have been for a long time, and I have seen a difference. The Book of Mormon is powerful. I have not struggled nearly so much with my temper. I have been better at staying calm and not yelling. All I have done differently is read The Book of Mormon, and it has made a huge difference. I think is because the Holy Ghost is better able to speak to me. I am grateful for The Book of Mormon.
Friday, July 31, 2009
Anybody want to move in down the street?
Looks like the economy hit a neighbor down the street. We'd love to have you as a neighbor...
Take a look and place your bid today. We hope the rumors we've heard are correct and that it is a HUD Home. Otherwise, property values have really dropped on our street!
Take a look and place your bid today. We hope the rumors we've heard are correct and that it is a HUD Home. Otherwise, property values have really dropped on our street!
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Tent cities
Editor's note: I wrote this in March. Not sure why it didn't post back then.
I have been perplexed by the recent news reports of tent cities popping up with fellow down-on-their-luck Americans populating these impromptu residents. How do you get to a point where you have no other options than to camp out? Where are the families and friends of our down-on-their-luck neighbors? How did they end up in such circumstances where they have no one to turn to? Where is the safety net?
I admit to subscribe to an approach to charitble giving which provides for the recipient a hand up, not a handout. I agree with the following statement:
Surely we are not now as a nation so full of ourselves, so proud from all of our possessions and things amassed over the recent years of plenty that we cannot step back and help a struggling friend or family member? Does financial success still trump personal needs?
There are many in need. There are also many in just want. We are learning as a nation the difference between wants and needs. Greed and hunger. Hummers and Model Ts. A beautiful house and a house which meets the needs.
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I have been perplexed by the recent news reports of tent cities popping up with fellow down-on-their-luck Americans populating these impromptu residents. How do you get to a point where you have no other options than to camp out? Where are the families and friends of our down-on-their-luck neighbors? How did they end up in such circumstances where they have no one to turn to? Where is the safety net?
I admit to subscribe to an approach to charitble giving which provides for the recipient a hand up, not a handout. I agree with the following statement:
"True charity to a poor family or person consists in placing them in a situation in which they can support themselves” (in James R. Clark, comp., Messages of the First Presidency of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 6 vols. [1965–75], 2:134).From another angle, what can I do to help those who may be on a similar road within my reach? How do I step in and provide a helping hand. It seems to me that as Americans, we have always helped our neighbors. Historically, we've had barn raisings, work parties, and we give change in jars at the check-out to help others. Sometimes the charity which is provided is simply our providing a 'fish.' Other times we provide the 'fishing pole,' and in the ideal circumstance, we provide the pole and some knowledge where to find the best fishing spot.
Surely we are not now as a nation so full of ourselves, so proud from all of our possessions and things amassed over the recent years of plenty that we cannot step back and help a struggling friend or family member? Does financial success still trump personal needs?
There are many in need. There are also many in just want. We are learning as a nation the difference between wants and needs. Greed and hunger. Hummers and Model Ts. A beautiful house and a house which meets the needs.
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Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Choosing the Truth
One of the most difficult aspects about living in our day and age is the challenge of choosing truth over the philosophies of men.
How do you decide what is right? How do you define the path you will take? Why do you choose one path over another? Who do you let influence you?
There are many voices pulling at us. We may not notice but they are there. For instance, the Brethren encourage instructors and teachers in the church to use the manuals provided. Some instructors seem to do well with this challenge while others can't help but bring in notions and ideas from other sources. I struggle to keep my eyes off the floor when a talk show host, popular author, or other source is used to introduce or enhance an idea taught in the lesson. More often than not the intent is good, but the principle taught is foreign to the concepts taught in the scriptures. Or the ideas of the popular figure twist the truth in to a partial picture of what the Lord's principles teach. The instructor's true purpose is to ensure truths are taught.
However, getting to a point where you can teach truth or accept truth requires the acceptance of two basic truths. Illustrated in this article from the June 1979 Ensign telling of one convert's story of accepting truth:
I also think the key to avoiding the pitfalls of our day still centers around the simple principle taught in Primary and by the Missionaries: Follow the Prophet. The leaders of the Church teach us clearly the principles of truth. Is our first source of information the recent words of the Brethren? When we look for clarification through their words rather than that of a world figure on the topic we can be assured we are on the right path.
The world truly is in commotion today. Men's hearts are failing them and they don't know where to turn for guidance and peace. The Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ teaches us the truth. We must have faith that the principles taught are true and seek after the wisdom of God's chosen mouthpiece in these latter days. As we do, the promise is that we will have the peace which comes from fully living the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
(1) Bazyk, Robert J., "Inquiry beyond Reason," Ensign, June 1979. Online.
How do you decide what is right? How do you define the path you will take? Why do you choose one path over another? Who do you let influence you?
There are many voices pulling at us. We may not notice but they are there. For instance, the Brethren encourage instructors and teachers in the church to use the manuals provided. Some instructors seem to do well with this challenge while others can't help but bring in notions and ideas from other sources. I struggle to keep my eyes off the floor when a talk show host, popular author, or other source is used to introduce or enhance an idea taught in the lesson. More often than not the intent is good, but the principle taught is foreign to the concepts taught in the scriptures. Or the ideas of the popular figure twist the truth in to a partial picture of what the Lord's principles teach. The instructor's true purpose is to ensure truths are taught.
However, getting to a point where you can teach truth or accept truth requires the acceptance of two basic truths. Illustrated in this article from the June 1979 Ensign telling of one convert's story of accepting truth:
"[My friend] Ted referred to and described what he said were two truths contained in scriptures: first, the truth of history, an actual account of the Lord’s dealings with his people; and second, the truth of righteousness, the commandments, the will of God for his children." (1)With revisionist notions and ideas pushing us to have a lack of faith in the history we've been taught and a culture which accepts any actions as 'ok,' it is as confusing as ever to find the truth. The scriptures are an obvious source from which we can obtain the ideas and concepts which will help us avoid the pitfalls of the world. Do we regularly read the scriptures?
I also think the key to avoiding the pitfalls of our day still centers around the simple principle taught in Primary and by the Missionaries: Follow the Prophet. The leaders of the Church teach us clearly the principles of truth. Is our first source of information the recent words of the Brethren? When we look for clarification through their words rather than that of a world figure on the topic we can be assured we are on the right path.
The world truly is in commotion today. Men's hearts are failing them and they don't know where to turn for guidance and peace. The Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ teaches us the truth. We must have faith that the principles taught are true and seek after the wisdom of God's chosen mouthpiece in these latter days. As we do, the promise is that we will have the peace which comes from fully living the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
(1) Bazyk, Robert J., "Inquiry beyond Reason," Ensign, June 1979. Online.
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Josh's Talk
I will strengthen my family
A talk by Josh Leonard on July 12, 2009
Today I have been asked to talk about how we strengthen our family. Elder Robert D. Hales, one of the Twelve Apostles said “The key to strengthening our families is having the Spirit of the Lord come into our homes”
We can invite the Spirit into our home by praying with our family; go to church together; have Family Home evening together; play together; and read the scriptures.
Elder Hales also said “The goal of our families is to be on the strait and narrow path.” So I will strengthen my family by living the Gospel. I love my family. I want to be Together Forever with them.
Wednesday, July 8, 2009
Yes, We're Still Here
It has been a long time. I guess I just haven't known what to write. It is summer, and we are being lazy, sort of. Maybe it is just the children who are being lazy. Actually we had a really good vacation to Utah where we went to two family reunions, visited the Oquirrh Mountain Temple Open House, and kept really busy with lots of fun activities.
And now that we are back, Kyle and I have been tackling the list of things that needs to be done around the house. We found an electrician who could fix our electrical issue without replacing the entire electrical panel (hurray!). Kyle has already glued a cupboard door back together and hung the new shade for the kitchen window. Now he is working on replacing some damaged base board in the family room. After that there is some dry wall repair for the kitchen ceiling, repairs on the back door, and removing mirrors in the bathroom (and then fixing the walls), and probably a few more things I've overlooked right now. Eventually there will also be a new side fence, but that is not happening while temperatures are in the high 90s or low 100s. When we get this list finished, I think we will really work on staying on top of things rather than letting them build up.
During the days, I am trying to keep the children busy enough that they aren't picking at each other. Last summer all they wanted to do was play Webkinz on the computer. This summer the most popular activities are riding bikes and reading.
--Shawnie
And now that we are back, Kyle and I have been tackling the list of things that needs to be done around the house. We found an electrician who could fix our electrical issue without replacing the entire electrical panel (hurray!). Kyle has already glued a cupboard door back together and hung the new shade for the kitchen window. Now he is working on replacing some damaged base board in the family room. After that there is some dry wall repair for the kitchen ceiling, repairs on the back door, and removing mirrors in the bathroom (and then fixing the walls), and probably a few more things I've overlooked right now. Eventually there will also be a new side fence, but that is not happening while temperatures are in the high 90s or low 100s. When we get this list finished, I think we will really work on staying on top of things rather than letting them build up.
During the days, I am trying to keep the children busy enough that they aren't picking at each other. Last summer all they wanted to do was play Webkinz on the computer. This summer the most popular activities are riding bikes and reading.
--Shawnie
Monday, June 8, 2009
Road Construction
It is almost done. The mud, dust, noise, and excitement (for the boys) is drawing to a close. The road is mostly laid. The last corners of the road are in process. Some driveways are already poured and curing. Soon we'll have a new driveway and they will be able to start working on the yard.
None too soon!
Here's the photo album January through June 2009:
None too soon!
Here's the photo album January through June 2009:
Wednesday, June 3, 2009
Just 2 More Days!!
Just two more days of school. After today and tomorrow, summer begins. I am looking forward to having all the children home. I am looking forward to a relaxed schedule. I am looking forward to parks, wading pools, the library, riding bikes, and playing with friends. I am looking forward to a trip to Utah to visit lots and lots of family. The children are also looking forward to summer. I wonder what they are excited about?
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Why do you visit?
This past week we had 132 visits from around the country. Most of you are from Texas. The rest from elsewhere. Nearly all of the returning visitors seem to be viewing the main page. The rest come to a variety of pages. Searches for "chicken-catchatori", "Family is of God," and "Green vs. Blue WalMart," top the list.
So who are you and why do you visit? Please let us know by adding your comments to this post.
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
News
Brittany now proudly wears glasses! We discovered last week that she has an astigmatism (like both her parents), but she is not near or far-sighted. Yesterday she got the glasses, and she looks great in them. And I am very glad that Brittany is glad to have them. Maybe soon we can post a picture of her. (hint, hint, Kyle)
Friday, May 1, 2009
A Few Thoughts
Brittany's BOB competition has been canceled due to the current public health scare. I hope they can reschedule. I want her to be able to see the results of her hard work.
The road continues to be a mess, but they put lime down last week, so it's not quite as bad. I have had more experiences of fish-tailing, spinning out, and not necessarily going where I am steering than ever before.
Erica likes to climb up on chairs and stools to get what she wants. One of her favorite activities while I am fixing dinner is standing on a chair so she can push the buttons on the answering machine. If you have called and gotten random sounds or child-like voices on the answering machine, it is Erica's doing. I am sorry.
Paul likes to play with Erica, but it can quickly change to hitting her, pushing her down, taking her special blanket, or sitting on her. He freely acknowledges that he has done these things, but I can't seem to convince him that they are wrong to do. He also likes to lock doors. I also have not had success convincing him that this is a problem.
Joshua likes to read Encyclopedia Brown books. He has grown tall, and he thinks he may be the tallest in Kindergarten. He is playing T-ball again. He surprised us by how well he can field the ball. Josh and Paul really enjoy playing together.
I have been very busy lately. I have had several weeks where lots of things have popped up, but it has been good to have meaningful things to do. I am trying to catch back up on the housecleaning. (Megan helped me a few nights ago. When she couldn't sleep, she cleaned the family room and vacuumed it. Kyle stopped her and sent her to bed before she dusted.)
I have been enjoying gardening this spring. Their are onions, 3 carrots, peas, green beans, bell peppers, tomatoes, watermelon, cucumber, and zucchini growing right now. I planted cantaloupe seeds yesterday. So far I have only harvested some onion tops (my version of green onions), but the peas, tomatoes, and peppers are all blooming. I hope these plants fulfill the promise of a bountiful harvest. It feels so good to eat the food you have grown yourself.
The road continues to be a mess, but they put lime down last week, so it's not quite as bad. I have had more experiences of fish-tailing, spinning out, and not necessarily going where I am steering than ever before.
Erica likes to climb up on chairs and stools to get what she wants. One of her favorite activities while I am fixing dinner is standing on a chair so she can push the buttons on the answering machine. If you have called and gotten random sounds or child-like voices on the answering machine, it is Erica's doing. I am sorry.
Paul likes to play with Erica, but it can quickly change to hitting her, pushing her down, taking her special blanket, or sitting on her. He freely acknowledges that he has done these things, but I can't seem to convince him that they are wrong to do. He also likes to lock doors. I also have not had success convincing him that this is a problem.
Joshua likes to read Encyclopedia Brown books. He has grown tall, and he thinks he may be the tallest in Kindergarten. He is playing T-ball again. He surprised us by how well he can field the ball. Josh and Paul really enjoy playing together.
I have been very busy lately. I have had several weeks where lots of things have popped up, but it has been good to have meaningful things to do. I am trying to catch back up on the housecleaning. (Megan helped me a few nights ago. When she couldn't sleep, she cleaned the family room and vacuumed it. Kyle stopped her and sent her to bed before she dusted.)
I have been enjoying gardening this spring. Their are onions, 3 carrots, peas, green beans, bell peppers, tomatoes, watermelon, cucumber, and zucchini growing right now. I planted cantaloupe seeds yesterday. So far I have only harvested some onion tops (my version of green onions), but the peas, tomatoes, and peppers are all blooming. I hope these plants fulfill the promise of a bountiful harvest. It feels so good to eat the food you have grown yourself.
Friday, April 17, 2009
Captain of BOB
Brittany joined a team/club this year called BOB (Battle of the Books). They read all the books on the assigned list, and then they need to be able to answer questions on the books. It has been good for Brittany to put her love of reading and good memory to work. At yesterday's meeting, the sponsoring teacher split the group into teams and assigned captains. Brittany is the captain of her team. Brittany explained to me that the captain is pretty important because if the 4 girls on the team disagree on the answer, the captain has to make the final decision. I am sure Brittany will be a great captain. Congratulations, Brittany.
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
Monday, April 13, 2009
Construction = Mess
From Easter Egg Hunt 2009 |
This is not construction that we are doing. If you look carefully at Kyle’s photos of our road, you will realize that it is no longer an asphalt road, but only mud. The city made the decision to replace the water and sewer pipes and then replace the asphalt with a new concrete road.
They started with the utilities at the end of January. That work is now done, and it wasn’t too bad for us. We had only a few small holes dug in our yard rather than a trench across the entire yard as the neighbors across the street had to endure. Josh and Paul enjoyed watching the tractors and machines at work and up-close, so I humored them and spent hours watching the boys watch the work. The interruptions in water service were also only a minor inconvenience and short-lived. After a couple weeks, the bad taste from the new water pipes even went away.
Now comes the new road. Right now the asphalt has been removed, leaving us with a dirt road. For a few days, that was just bumpy to drive on, and Brittany and Megan enjoyed riding their bikes over the ruts. Then Saturday night it rained. It was a good, long soaking rain, which we really needed. But it left a road that was complete mud. I was glad Kyle drove to church yesterday. I’m never quite sure what I’m going to find when I open the garage with the hope to drive somewhere. I might have to dodge tractors and trucks, which I am learning the names for (since my boys are very interested in these things). I feel that I have to warn anyone coming to my house of the hazards, but I’m never quite sure exactly what to warn them of. There were will be several 7 week periods (for the curing of concrete) when I will not be able to access my driveway (or park on the road). That will be a challenge, with 3 children not in school, and 2 children who must be taken to and picked up from school every day, plus piano lessons and baseball practice, and library story time and playgroup, and whatever else needs to be done that week. We will get a lot of exercise as we walk back and forth to the van.
Oh well, there’s nothing I can do about it. At least there will be a nice smooth concrete road in 2 or 3 months.
Saturday, April 11, 2009
More photos!
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Sunday, April 5, 2009
Job openings
If you know of any job openings, pass them my way. We are looking to help a number of friends/ward members who are out of work.
Thanks.
Thanks.
Another General Conference Under our belts
Our children are definitely NOT the sit around quietly and listen to conference type. They need incentives to listen...so Shawnie came up with a great idea to get them listening to General Conference.
She wrote on three sticky notes three lists of words. The rules of the game were if the children heard the speaker say a word on sticky note, they could get 1 piece of snack from bowl.
I wish I'd taken a picture or video of them watching conference. They were glued to the words being said. Megan especially did well. Everytime one of them would hear a word, they'd all pounce on the bowl. Paul and Erica weren't sure about the rules, but they were in there as well following their older siblings.
I even twisted the game a little bit for this morning's session which we watched at the Stake Center. Megan watched the whole session and noted three hundred instances of different words on the lists. Her reward was two extra cookies at lunch. She was elated and so were we. We only had to wrestle with Paul and Erica, instead of all five children!
Sunday, March 29, 2009
A few links on Gardening in North Texas
Shawnie has taken over most of the gardening duties in our family, so this is mostly for her…but I want to be in the know as well.
• Dallas Morning news story with a calendar of what to do when in the garden
• Gardening tips
• Somebody’s gardening blog
• http://agrilifeextension.tamu.edu/
• http://tarrant.tamu.edu/
• Dallas Morning news story with a calendar of what to do when in the garden
• Gardening tips
• Somebody’s gardening blog
• http://agrilifeextension.tamu.edu/
• http://tarrant.tamu.edu/
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Saturday, March 21, 2009
The Temple
A Family Centered Church
"It is good for people to know . . . how family centered our theology and our lifestyles are. . . .
"Mormons place particularly strong emphasis on family as the basic unit of the Church and of society. We have a deep commitment to marriage (defined as a union between one man and one woman). Polygamy, a limited practice in the early pioneer days of the Church, was discontinued in 1890, some 117 years ago.
"Families and individuals, whether members of our faith or not, can attend Sunday services in our chapels. Here we worship together, instructing one another from the scriptures.
"Latter day Saint families are encouraged to hold family home evenings weekly, usually on Monday nights. This provides a regular and predictable time for parents to teach values to their children and to have fun together. . . .
"The Church has auxiliary programs for women, youth, and children as a support to the family. . . .
M. Russell Ballard, "Faith, Family, Facts, and Fruits," Ensign, Nov. 2007, 26
Newsroom article from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
I found this article on the Newsroom Web site of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I thought you might find it interesting. Click on the link below to view:
http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/commentary/the-publicity-dilemma
"The temple endowment was given by revelation. Thus, it is best understood by revelation, prayerfully sought with a sincere heart. President Brigham Young said, 'Your endowment is, to receive all those ordinances in the house of the Lord, which are necessary for you, after you have departed this life, to enable you to walk back to the presence of the Father, . . . and gain your eternal exaltation' (Discourses of Brigham Young, sel. John A. Widtsoe [1941], 416)."
Russell M. Nelson, “Personal Preparation for Temple Blessings,” Ensign, May 2001, 32
Topics: Temple
"It is good for people to know . . . how family centered our theology and our lifestyles are. . . .
"Mormons place particularly strong emphasis on family as the basic unit of the Church and of society. We have a deep commitment to marriage (defined as a union between one man and one woman). Polygamy, a limited practice in the early pioneer days of the Church, was discontinued in 1890, some 117 years ago.
"Families and individuals, whether members of our faith or not, can attend Sunday services in our chapels. Here we worship together, instructing one another from the scriptures.
"Latter day Saint families are encouraged to hold family home evenings weekly, usually on Monday nights. This provides a regular and predictable time for parents to teach values to their children and to have fun together. . . .
"The Church has auxiliary programs for women, youth, and children as a support to the family. . . .
M. Russell Ballard, "Faith, Family, Facts, and Fruits," Ensign, Nov. 2007, 26
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Newsroom article from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
I found this article on the Newsroom Web site of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I thought you might find it interesting. Click on the link below to view:
http://newsroom.lds.org/ldsnewsroom/eng/commentary/the-publicity-dilemma
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"The temple endowment was given by revelation. Thus, it is best understood by revelation, prayerfully sought with a sincere heart. President Brigham Young said, 'Your endowment is, to receive all those ordinances in the house of the Lord, which are necessary for you, after you have departed this life, to enable you to walk back to the presence of the Father, . . . and gain your eternal exaltation' (Discourses of Brigham Young, sel. John A. Widtsoe [1941], 416)."
Russell M. Nelson, “Personal Preparation for Temple Blessings,” Ensign, May 2001, 32
Topics: Temple
Saturday, March 14, 2009
Saturday, March 7, 2009
Story from Our Recent Past, part 2
Kyle wanted me to correct the details... At this point, Kyle had graduated, finished a 3 month internship, and had not had work for 2 or 3 months. Our finances were actually worse than when we were students. The TV fell on its head while we were putting up Christmas decorations, and it was working again before Christmas, but I think it may have been broken longer than a week. Kyle didn't mention the night that the two of us entertained ourselves by opening up the TV, looking at it, poking around it, and then putting it back together. We again returned it to its spot on the TV stand. Then one night while Kyle was out doing church work, I turned on the TV out of habit, and it worked! It truly was a miracle, and it is only one of many that we experienced at that time of our lives.
Friday, March 6, 2009
Phone Call from a Stranger
A movie we recommend ---On Hulu here
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Story from our recent past
About four years ago we moved to Waco then later to Lorena. Our experience living in Lorena/Waco has reached a pinnacle in our family. The experiences are far enough in the past that we can tell stories about the time in the same vein as telling stories about the pioneers or our childhood!
On two recent occasions I told the following story (Shawnie will correct need to correct the details, I'm sure...but here goes anyway).
While living in Lorena, one day we were moving furniture around. [I believe it was to take down the Christmas decorations. Whatever the reason, we were moving the TV.] In the process, I placed the TV on the couch to lighten the TV stand for moving. After turning around from depositing the heavy load, I heard a loud bang. To my horror, I turned around to find the TV up-side-down on the floor!
We didn't have much hope that it would work and as a poor student family, we didn't have the funds to replace the TV. Our concerns were soon realized. Plugging in the TV, we found the screen produced Twilight Zone ghosts dancing on the screen.
None-the-less, we decided to keep the TV. The sound worked fine and Shawnie surmised that at least the children could listen to Sesame Street, even if they couldn't see it. So we finished moving things around and placed the TV back on the stand.
The TV continued to function in the same manner for about a week, then much to our surprise, it began working again! The day following its miraculous recovery the explanation of the TV's recovery was revealed. A faith-filled young Brittany had offered a prayer to her Heavenly Father asking that the TV be fixed. The prayer was answered. To this day we still use the TV!
On two recent occasions I told the following story (Shawnie will correct need to correct the details, I'm sure...but here goes anyway).
While living in Lorena, one day we were moving furniture around. [I believe it was to take down the Christmas decorations. Whatever the reason, we were moving the TV.] In the process, I placed the TV on the couch to lighten the TV stand for moving. After turning around from depositing the heavy load, I heard a loud bang. To my horror, I turned around to find the TV up-side-down on the floor!
We didn't have much hope that it would work and as a poor student family, we didn't have the funds to replace the TV. Our concerns were soon realized. Plugging in the TV, we found the screen produced Twilight Zone ghosts dancing on the screen.
None-the-less, we decided to keep the TV. The sound worked fine and Shawnie surmised that at least the children could listen to Sesame Street, even if they couldn't see it. So we finished moving things around and placed the TV back on the stand.
The TV continued to function in the same manner for about a week, then much to our surprise, it began working again! The day following its miraculous recovery the explanation of the TV's recovery was revealed. A faith-filled young Brittany had offered a prayer to her Heavenly Father asking that the TV be fixed. The prayer was answered. To this day we still use the TV!
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Israel to strike Iran?
How likely is Israel to strike Iran? See this article. Has anyone seen any counter point articles?
Monday, February 23, 2009
Oh no!!!.....Hurray!
First the "Oh No!!!"
I was feeling good that I had finally started the last load of laundry when I noticed that the water was still running after it had started agitating. I thought that was odd, but I was on the phone with Kyle so I didn't give it a lot of thought. After the phone call, I started to go outside, past the washer, when I stepped in a puddle. I quickly turned off the washer...the water kept flowing. I reached behind the washer to turn those handles in the wall that are there for this purpose...they would not budge...the water kept flowing. I grabbed the phone and pushed redial...Kyle told me to turn off the water at the street. I ran out to the street...couldn't turn that knob either...ran and grabbed a wrench...finally the water stopped flowing. Then I got the wet/dry vac (now I'm really glad Kyle decided to buy that last year) and started sucking up the water that covered half the kitchen floor. I just hoped the water hadn't gotten under the new laminate wood floor in the kitchen. Once I got the water cleaned up, I was left with a washer filled to overflowing with clothes and dirty water, and no water running to the house. I didn't dare turn the water back on until I could turn off the water to the washer, and those knobs still wouldn't budge. The neighbor wasn't home, so I decided to wait for Kyle to come home.
Now the "Hurray!"
We decided to cut our losses on the 9 1/2 year old washer. After all, Kyle has been saying for 6 months that the motor sounded like it was going out, and this thing with the water not stopping was something new. So, after spending a good part of Saturday reading up on washers, we made our purchase, and it was delivered last Tuesday. (If the washer had to die, it was nice of it to do it right before President's Day weekend so there were lots of sales.) We chose a front-loading LG washer, and I am very pleased with it. Of course, I was hoping for such a large capacity that I could do fewer loads, but I learned that all washers have their limits if you want the clothes to actually get clean. I am amazed at how quiet it is...all I really hear is the water running! And it should save tons of water and energy. So, "Hurray!"
Now, after buying a new car and a new washer, we hope that our family has done enough to help the economy. We don't want spend any more to stimulate the economy for the next few months.
I was feeling good that I had finally started the last load of laundry when I noticed that the water was still running after it had started agitating. I thought that was odd, but I was on the phone with Kyle so I didn't give it a lot of thought. After the phone call, I started to go outside, past the washer, when I stepped in a puddle. I quickly turned off the washer...the water kept flowing. I reached behind the washer to turn those handles in the wall that are there for this purpose...they would not budge...the water kept flowing. I grabbed the phone and pushed redial...Kyle told me to turn off the water at the street. I ran out to the street...couldn't turn that knob either...ran and grabbed a wrench...finally the water stopped flowing. Then I got the wet/dry vac (now I'm really glad Kyle decided to buy that last year) and started sucking up the water that covered half the kitchen floor. I just hoped the water hadn't gotten under the new laminate wood floor in the kitchen. Once I got the water cleaned up, I was left with a washer filled to overflowing with clothes and dirty water, and no water running to the house. I didn't dare turn the water back on until I could turn off the water to the washer, and those knobs still wouldn't budge. The neighbor wasn't home, so I decided to wait for Kyle to come home.
Now the "Hurray!"
We decided to cut our losses on the 9 1/2 year old washer. After all, Kyle has been saying for 6 months that the motor sounded like it was going out, and this thing with the water not stopping was something new. So, after spending a good part of Saturday reading up on washers, we made our purchase, and it was delivered last Tuesday. (If the washer had to die, it was nice of it to do it right before President's Day weekend so there were lots of sales.) We chose a front-loading LG washer, and I am very pleased with it. Of course, I was hoping for such a large capacity that I could do fewer loads, but I learned that all washers have their limits if you want the clothes to actually get clean. I am amazed at how quiet it is...all I really hear is the water running! And it should save tons of water and energy. So, "Hurray!"
Now, after buying a new car and a new washer, we hope that our family has done enough to help the economy. We don't want spend any more to stimulate the economy for the next few months.
Saturday, February 7, 2009
Friday, February 6, 2009
Wha-hooo!
It's official, I have a new car! After much angst and thought, searching and debate, we found me an "almost new" Ford Fusion (2008 with 4500 miles and a previous owner who only drove it for 7 months.). Even so, the negotiations were long and hard but she's all ours.
Papa would be proud. I'm a Ford man once again!
Now I need to come up with a name for her....any thoughts?
Thursday, February 5, 2009
Check out my new blog...
I'm starting another blog for a different audience here. I will post rants and raves, tips, tricks and other thoughts about Oracle's BI tools (formerly Hyperion) and other general topics.
Monday, February 2, 2009
Electric cars and lithium ion batteries...are they the answer?
I read an interesting article which indicates that maybe the path we're on to make our cars electric isn't such a great idea after all.
Per the article, over half of the world's lithium ore (used to manufacture the batteries used in most electric cars) is found in the tiny South American country of Bolivia. A country which happens to be un-apologetically anti-American and anti-West. Its current President nationalized the country's oil and natural gas production and has sparred with US litium interests.
It seems like we're likely to have an uphill battle with electric cars as well.
Per the article, over half of the world's lithium ore (used to manufacture the batteries used in most electric cars) is found in the tiny South American country of Bolivia. A country which happens to be un-apologetically anti-American and anti-West. Its current President nationalized the country's oil and natural gas production and has sparred with US litium interests.
It seems like we're likely to have an uphill battle with electric cars as well.
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If anyone finds any articles on this topic, I'd appreciate other viewpoints on the lithium debate.
---Kyle
---Kyle
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Turbulent times and the Fall of Adam and Eve
Recently I had an experience which highlighted to me the challenging world we find ourselves in. The verses found in Moses 4: 17-21 best summarize the experience. Until the recent experience, I read these verses with the same perspective I gaines years ago in a BYU religion class. I read them in context of this being the pattern Heavenly Father provided for parenting. But this time around I saw something deeper. I also saw a patern for dealing with the consequenses others' poor choices have upon us.
My thinking was changed as I thought about the challenging times we live in. The troubled times we live in are directly tied to these verses (the Fall of Adam and Even and Satan's part in the Plan of Salvation). Satan was cursed for tempting Adam and Eve. Even so, he was also provided power. He is using the power he has to cause as much trouble in this world as he can. Ultimately though, Satan can bruise our heel but we can crush his head. The experience strengthened my testimony. We will come off conqueror, even when another's choice is to turn away from God. Satan’s power may be unleashed to its fullest, but if we keep the faith and keep our covenants we will come off conqueror in the end!
My thinking was changed as I thought about the challenging times we live in. The troubled times we live in are directly tied to these verses (the Fall of Adam and Even and Satan's part in the Plan of Salvation). Satan was cursed for tempting Adam and Eve. Even so, he was also provided power. He is using the power he has to cause as much trouble in this world as he can. Ultimately though, Satan can bruise our heel but we can crush his head. The experience strengthened my testimony. We will come off conqueror, even when another's choice is to turn away from God. Satan’s power may be unleashed to its fullest, but if we keep the faith and keep our covenants we will come off conqueror in the end!
Friday, January 16, 2009
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
Monday, January 5, 2009
A new addition to the family
We caved in and finally got a pet. "Slider" (a long-haired hamster) joined our family this past week as a Christmas gift from Mom and Dad to Megan.
The children have been clammering around the cage ooo-ing and ah-ing at every little thing the animal does. "It's getting a drink," or "It's awake!" or "It's in the food dish." The added level of family energy caused by the rodent is exciting. I am sure the poor little animal doesn't know quite how to deal with all the attention. I think it is still adjusting to its new surroundings as my attempt to pet it today only led it to posture in self-defense.
Time will hopefully allow this little animal to grow accustom to our busy lives and provide the play animal Megan was looking for. Until then, the boys will shake the table its on, Paul will announce in his loud voice hamster play-by-play's, and the children will gather round to gawk and a small rodent named "Slider."
Sunday, January 4, 2009
"The Family Is of God"
I discovered this song because of my calling as Primary pianist. Each year the church distributes an outline of subjects to study in Sharing Time and songs to learn each month. For January, a choice was given for the song: "I Lived in Heaven" or "The Family Is of God" (printed in the October 2008 Friend). So I looked up the song and was very impressed with the message. We decided to teach it to the children in our ward. Other wards may choose differently, so I thought I would share the words with you here. You can hear the song by going to www.friend.lds.org and clicking on the link at the right side of the page.
"The Family Is of God" by Matthew Neely
"Our Father has a family. It's me!
It's you, all others too; we are His children.
He sent each one of us to earth, through birth,
To live and learn here in fam'lies.
God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be--
This is how He shares His love, for the fam'ly is of God.
A father's place is to preside, provide,
To love and teach the gospel to his children.
A father leads in fam'ly prayer to share
Their love for Father in Heaven.
God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be--
This is how He shares His love, for the fam'ly is of God.
A Mother's purpose is to care, prepare,
To nurture and to strengthen all her children.
She teaches children to obey, to pray,
To love and serve in the fam'ly.
God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be--
This is how He shares His love, for the fam'ly is of God.
I'll love and serve my family and be
A good example to each fam'ly member.
And when I am a mom or dad, so glad,
I'll help my fam'ly remember:
God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be--
This is how He shares His love, for the fam'ly is of God."
"The Family Is of God" by Matthew Neely
"Our Father has a family. It's me!
It's you, all others too; we are His children.
He sent each one of us to earth, through birth,
To live and learn here in fam'lies.
God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be--
This is how He shares His love, for the fam'ly is of God.
A father's place is to preside, provide,
To love and teach the gospel to his children.
A father leads in fam'ly prayer to share
Their love for Father in Heaven.
God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be--
This is how He shares His love, for the fam'ly is of God.
A Mother's purpose is to care, prepare,
To nurture and to strengthen all her children.
She teaches children to obey, to pray,
To love and serve in the fam'ly.
God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be--
This is how He shares His love, for the fam'ly is of God.
I'll love and serve my family and be
A good example to each fam'ly member.
And when I am a mom or dad, so glad,
I'll help my fam'ly remember:
God gave us families to help us become what He wants us to be--
This is how He shares His love, for the fam'ly is of God."
Friday, January 2, 2009
Paul and Popcorn
At some point, our family developed a bit of a habit of eating popcorn, with the bowl on a kitchen towel on the floor, during movies. It is one of the few instances when eating outside of the kitchen/dining room is permitted. This afternoon, the children watched a movie. They asked to watch the movie, which I approved and helped to get started, but no one asked me about popcorn. I was busy doing something on the computer. Paul kept coming to say something unintelligible to me, but he was very insistent. I though maybe he was saying "torn." I asked him what was torn, he ran off, and I went on with what I was doing. He kept coming back saying the same thing. Finally he insisted I follow him to the kitchen, where he showed me the popcorn popper and bowl that he had gotten out of the cupboard on his own. The light went on for me, and after I tried to get him to say "POPcorn" a few times, I agreed to make popcorn because he was so industrious. I started the popcorn popper and went back to finish what I was doing.
Before long, Paul was back repeatedly saying "butter, butter," so I went to melt some butter to put on the popcorn. When I checked the fridge, there was no butter there, so I got a stick from the freezer. When I went to get a knife for cutting the butter, I happened to glance in the popcorn bowl, where I saw 3/4 a stick of butter, unwrapped, sitting in the bowl (fortunately no popcorn had popped yet). Yep, Paul was still being industrious and taking care of the butter, too. I cut off a little butter to melt in the microwave and found some waxed paper to wrap the rest of the butter in.
All of a sudden Paul was yelling again. When I turned around to look, the popped corn was flowing over the sides of the bowl. I started cleaning it up, but Paul's eye was caught by an unpopped kernel which he grabbed and put in his mouth before I could stop him. Of course, it was very hot, but I gave him a drink, and he was alright. He was undaunted and quickly got out a towel to put the bowl on while I added butter and salt. So Paul triumphantly delivered the popcorn to the family room, which all the others devoured without even thinking about all the work he had done to bring it to them.
Before long, Paul was back repeatedly saying "butter, butter," so I went to melt some butter to put on the popcorn. When I checked the fridge, there was no butter there, so I got a stick from the freezer. When I went to get a knife for cutting the butter, I happened to glance in the popcorn bowl, where I saw 3/4 a stick of butter, unwrapped, sitting in the bowl (fortunately no popcorn had popped yet). Yep, Paul was still being industrious and taking care of the butter, too. I cut off a little butter to melt in the microwave and found some waxed paper to wrap the rest of the butter in.
All of a sudden Paul was yelling again. When I turned around to look, the popped corn was flowing over the sides of the bowl. I started cleaning it up, but Paul's eye was caught by an unpopped kernel which he grabbed and put in his mouth before I could stop him. Of course, it was very hot, but I gave him a drink, and he was alright. He was undaunted and quickly got out a towel to put the bowl on while I added butter and salt. So Paul triumphantly delivered the popcorn to the family room, which all the others devoured without even thinking about all the work he had done to bring it to them.
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